Ask the right questions Guys often get stuck asking dull questions during first online dates. So rather than jumping from one thread to another, dive deeper into each one.
They’ll bounce from one question to the next (from “Where are you from? After you ask her where she’s from, maybe ask what she thinks of her hometown, or what kind of things she did for fun growing up.
To help you make that date a success (so you’re likely to get a second one), here are some tips to follow for having a great first online date.Keep it simple If you’re planning a first date with a girl you met online there’s no need for a major time or financial commitment.After all neither of you want to get locked into an hour-and-a-half long dinner (which may cost you around 0) when it’s clear after just 5 minutes that there’s no chemistry.So pick a date that’s cheap, easy, and won’t take more than 60-90 minutes.Meet up for coffee, take a hike together, go for a stroll around a cool part of town, etc.
This will give you a chance to see if any chemistry exists before committing to something more involved.
Now if things go well initially you may want to have a back-up plan for how you can continue the date.
Find a fun activity in town (mini golf, bowling, live music) and see if she’s interested in going right then and there.
If you can do multiple things on your first date it’s going to create a feeling like you’ve known each other longer than you actually have.
Plus, mixing in an activity means you’re more likely to have fun together and avoid awkward tension.
Show up smiling First online dates can cause a lot of anxiety for both men and women.